End to Misunderstandings in Your Marriage

Slide #1: A misunderstanding is a failure to comprehend your spouse’s real concerns, feelings or intentions.

Slide #2: The result is often an intense argument over the wrong issues.

Slide #3: There are several simple steps to avoiding a misunderstanding.

Slide #4: Stop and give your spouse your undivided attention.

Slide #5: Ask them to share with you what’s truly on their heart.

Slide #6: Repeat back to them what you have heard them say.

Slide #7: Ask non-judgmental questions to clarify and confirm.

Slide #8: Then switch places and let your spouse go through the same process with you.

Slide #9: Once you both are understood you can work to solve the conflict.

Slide #10: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…” James 1:19