Slide #1: The reason most couples fight is that they are stepping on each other’s pain.

Slide #2: “I’m not loved,” “I’m not valued,” “I’m to blame,” are all pain issues.

Slide #3: We need to drop down into our hearts and reach out to our spouse.

Slide #4: We need to ask caring questions so our spouse can tell us their pain.

Slide #5: We need ask our spouse to give us their pain.

Slide#6: We need to ask Jesus to heal their pain.

Slide #7: When we connect heart to heart the pain will go away.

Slide #8: “Love never fails…But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:8;13