Do we have any choices when our spouse betrays us?

Slide #1: With thanks to Loving Solutions by Gary Chapman (Northfield Press, 1998)

Slide #2: I can choose to be responsible for my own attitude.

Slide #3: I can choose to let my attitudes affect my actions.

Slide #4: I can choose to try and influence, rather than change, my spouse.

Slide #5: I can choose not to let my emotions control my actions.

Slide #6: I can choose to admit my own imperfections (without admitting I'm a failure).

Slide #7: I can believe love is the most powerful weapon for good in the world.

Slide #8: "...I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live..."

Slide #9: "...That you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life..." Deuteronomy 30:19-20